Rise Above the Ruins
Divorce To Direction

Are you tired of feeling stuck in emotional chaos and wondering who you are without your relationship? Divorce doesn't have to destroy you.

It’s time to rise above the ruins, reclaim your power, and rebuild you into the man you're meant to be. Get the clarity, tools, and brotherhood to rebuild your identity and create a life you actually want to wake up to.


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The Struggles of Divorce


In my own divorce and work with men, I’ve noticed shared struggles across the board. These struggles center on our mindset, emotions, response and, ultimately, our identity.

My guess is that if you’re here you’re feeling some or all of the things on the right... these emotions are real.

  • Constantly battling “what ifs”—fearing your ex’s actions, the courts, escalating costs, or losing your kids.
  • Feeling stuck, unsure of who you are without your relationship and what you’re allowed to have and want now.
  • Escapism—numbing yourself with drinking, sex, travel, partying, and generally avoiding the pain of divorce.
  • Overwhelmed by emotional chaos—angry, sad, or guilty, and afraid to feel joy again.
  • Losing yourself in another unhealthy relationship, enabling your unhealthy patterns to continue with someone new or…
  • Struggling with your self-worth, and feeling like you're not enough and unworthy of love.

The confusion, pain, and frustration can feel paralyzing but you don’t have to go through this alone.

What if Divorce Could be Your Greatest Opportunity for Growth? 

Imagine for a moment that this isn't the end - it's a new beginning.

    • Find out who you truly are, not just who you were in your old relationship.

    • Heal old wounds and prevent unhealthy patterns from showing up in future relationships.

    • Love yourself, giving yourself permission to be a human and all that entails.

    • Escape the cycle of avoidance, and numbing to face your emotions head-on.

    • Build a life of clarity, purpose, and direction, without needing anyone else to complete you.

    • Stop living in fear of your ex or the future. Start creating a life that's true to who you are.
    Discover the Opportunity for Growth

    I love Aaron. He held me when I was in the darkest moments of my life, when I had lost everything I was ever afraid of losing. Supported by Aaron’s patient, loving listening and thoughtful questions, I learned to work with my feelings, instead of fearing them, and I built a foundation for my own personal growth that has truly transformed my life.

    Ryan E.

    New York, NY

    Aaron has a way of allowing you to show up in your own wisdom while still providing real direction and insight. He’s unlike any coach or therapist I’ve worked with—and the single strongest catalyst for my personal growth.

    Dave S

    California

    Introducing Divorce to Direction


    Divorce to Direction (D2D) is a life-changing program for men who are ready to turn their divorce into a catalyst for personal growth. Through my step-by-step approach, you’ll rise above the pain and confusion to learn who you are now, and to REBUILD YOUR LIFE ON YOUR TERMS.


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    Key Program Elements

    We’ll use these six key elements to build a new understanding of your mind and body along with skills in emotional intelligence to reveal your own personal upgraded identity.

    Getting Out Of 
    the Doom Cycle

    Avoiding the 
    Hypothetical Fight

    Looking at The Void 
    Your Ex Left Behind

    Grieve the Relationship, Embrace the Future

    Disarming Your
    Internal Arsenal

    Staying True
    To Yourself

    Program Benefits


    By joining Divorce to Direction, you'll... 

    • Regain emotional clarity and stop feeling like a prisoner to your emotions/reactions.
    • Build healthy boundaries with your ex and take control of your interactions. 
    • Stop toxic patterns repeating in future relationships. 
    • Save money on costly divorce proceedings 
    • Build healthy boundaries with your ex and take control of your interactions. 
    • Shorten the divorce process by understanding the underlying emotional 
    • Develop your own personal awareness & accountability so you can make empowered choices 
    • Rediscover who you are, what you truly want, and what makes you feel alive. 
    • Find a supportive community of men who are walking the same path as you, so you never feel alone again. 
    • Expand possibilities for your life so that you can create your best possible outcome.  
    Discover how this program works

    86 / hour

    Number of divorces
    in the USA

    42% 

    Overall divorce rate
    in the USA

    67%

    1st marriages that
    don't succeed

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    1:1 Coaching & Group Support

    Your Investment

    The average divorce costs $15,000. My ex and I have collectively spent $30,000+ in legal fees on our divorce.

    Working with a personal development coach / group or therapist usually costs over $1,000 > month.

    I'm confident that by working together we'll save you up to 5x the cost of this program in legal fees, wasted time, and emotional anguish. If you want to save money AND change your life for the better, schedule a free call below now to talk about making this investment in yourself. 

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    UNCONDITIONAL 14 DAY GUARANTEE
    I'm so confident in this process that if you're not satisfied after 2 coaching calls and 2 group sessions, I’ll refund your money.

    Use Your Divorce As Fuel for Your Transformation

    Don’t stay stuck in the pain, fear, or confusion. This is your opportunity to rise above the ruins of divorce and build a life that’s aligned with who you really are.

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    FAQs

    Here are answers to the most common questions I receive about divorce.

    There's a lot to unpack here. Science tells us when we have the right relationship to stress then it actually helps us grow. When we don't, it wears us down and even makes us sick. We, as men, tend to loop and ruminate in our minds while never actually feeling the emotions in our bodies. Men often cope by numbing out with screens, work, drugs (including alcohol), sex, exercise, etc. My program is designed to help you face your stress in order to move through it. Rather than coping externally, we'll go inside to feel and learn from what's there. Once we've done that, the path forward becomes clearer and we act. As we do so feelings shift and stress diminishes.

    My ultimate goal is for guys to speak whatever is true for them. The conversations we'll have and practices I can offer will help you understand what that is for you. This program is designed specifically for men who are going through divorce. If you're questioning that decision, I offer a special clarity package of 3 sessions in order to help you understand what's going on in you, what you really want, and how to advocate for it.

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    What I’ve come to realize in my own journey with Divorce and those of the men in my group is that it can be a source of healing and positive growth that propels you further into a life of joy and fulfillment or it can be a gaping wound that feels hard to avoid.

    My hope and my role as a coach is to help men like you going through that journey, recognize what needs to be healed and to give them the space, tools, and processes in order to do that work. 

    Now, living on the other side, what I have is a sense of freedom and fulfillment. I want to give that to you, if you're ready to change. It all starts with a free call. So let's do it.

    Sincerely,
    Aaron Musicant

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